most times what i do is to get
my point across to her...to seek
understanding and understand where
she's coming from too.
at this point changing the individual
isn't the most important thing...it is looking
at the issue at hand.
i may ask: do i have to make a major
issue out of a minor difference?
how will i want to be treated when
i strongly disagree on a matter?
most importantly, seeking empathy
is first thing that comes to my mind...
unless, beibee wants to play devil's advocate!