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HUMANITARIAN / reasons why men see beyond women body
« on: March 25, 2013, 11:12:04 AM »
LOVE DOCTOR?S CORNER ? WHY CAN?T MEN SEE BEYOND MY BODY? You think you're so hot and sexy - yet majorly attracting the wrong kind of men...any
rational explanation to this?...what's the true definition of beauty - and does it have
anything to do with "Sexiness"?...the post below was taken from our inbox?it?ll be our case
study?
? Kindly help me post this and please do hide my identity and notify me
when posted. I?m 24yrs old from a Christian home, I'm thankful and humble to God
Almighty for creating me the way I am. I?m not saying that I?m the prettiest but to some
extent, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I've got what most men want in a woman
(physical appearance) - talking about the physique, height, facial look, voice, attitude etc?
most especially my shape, I've got this sexy shape that a man can hardly resist which is where my problem lies. The problem is - every man I come across is always in lust with me,
I hardly get men who truly love me, they are all after my body. People have wrong
impression about me probably because of my look which I've worked on through my
mode of dressing so I could get a responsible and God fearing man as I've always desired
but it?s still not working. Please, I need your advice, what else can I do? I don?t want to be
jumping from one man to another; all I want is 2get married and have a blessed and settled home.? LOVE DOCTOR?S REPLY Hi dear, Hmmm...for a moment there...I was almost carried away by how you described your
features...but then...I had to re-read severally in order to really understand why you delved
into so much details...smiles...at first...one would have thought you trying to "put yourself up
for grabs"...but...in the real sense of things...that ain't the case...you gave so much details
about yourself in order that atleast 1 person would fully grasp the depth of the seriousness
of your issue...okay... Now...lets first clear the air on an issue before anything else...you seem not to understand 1
simple fact about men...WE ARE CREATURES OF SIGHT - we love sex...it is just normal that we
lust after women...it?s not every man who demands sex from you that doesn't love
you....THAT IN NO WAY MEANS YOU SHOULD GIVE YOURSELF TO EVERYMAN THAT COMES YOUR
WAY - No!...You should filter out the ones without self control...besides...you've got the right
to choose who you give your body to...don't you? And...here's the most important point - You're very much (and extremely) stuck up to your
physical qualities...I believe you see yourself as more of "sexy" rather than "beautiful".
Now...whatever goes on in our minds is what we act out in reality (either directly or
indirectly) - since you ONLY see yourself as sexy...everything about you would always
resonate "sexy"...your walk...speech...eyes...laughter...etc...anything...in that way...you would
majorly attract men to you based on your "sexiness"...in turn...most would only be lusting after you... In addition...it looks like you're focusing more on what you don't want rather than what
you want...its making you see almost every man that comes your way as being "after your
body"...for instance...I'm sure you must have mistaken a simple complement like "you're
beautiful" for "you're very sexy" - YEAH...that?s what your pessimism about men's causing
you... My advice - Your mind is where the solution lies - it has little to do with changing your dress sense...its
already established that you're sexy...its good...there's nothing bad about that...now...you
need to look inside you...discover those innate qualities of your attitude that makes you
desirable...work on them...focus MAJORLY on them...that?s where REAL BEAUTY lies...BEAUTY
IS A THING OF THE MIND...make sure those qualities come to the surface and see what
happens - You'll begin to majorly start attracting serious minded men... You also should snap out of that "all men are attracted to my body" notion...I'm sure you
must have misjudged the intentions of some good men 'coz of this... Lastly...keep good company...we all judge people by the company they keep...most men
would really not respect you if you're always found in the company of "wrong ladies"...you
know what they say..."show me your friend...." Give all these some thoughts if you wish...I'm sure you'll be fine... All the best...

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CULTURE / lessons to learn
« on: March 24, 2013, 09:18:27 PM »
   Some women are so afraid to be alone that they let men treat them like dirt. I wonder how
they feel when the random man they chose is out until 3 a.m. making sure some other
woman isn?t lonely. Some women cling to any man that gives her attention, desperately
trying to fill the place of the father she never knew. I wonder how she feels selling her soul
for less than the child support her father never paid. Some women proclaim from the roof
tops how independent they are. I wonder how they feel allowing man after man to lay in their bed all in the name of being able to treat men like men have treated women for years.
Some women are so bitter that their frown lines are deeper than their smile lines. I wonder
how they feel wishing they had a good man but no man will come within ten feet of them
for fear of being emasculated and judged so harshly based on the last exes she?s had. Some women, no matter how bad her past relationships have been, one day say, enough!
Some women, finally get tired of being tired and intend to plot a new path filled with
forgiveness, self esteem and integrity. No matter what your past held, there is always
renewal that you can reach for. No matter how many men you have had, there is one man
that will never leave you, hurt you or use you. You have spent years chasing earthly men,
why not seek God and chase Him with such a passionate dedication. I wrote this with a woman as the main character but trust me, men go through relationship
issues that leave them broken too. But God is a fixer. Even if you come to him in a million
pieces, God will rebuild you anew and make those pieces, complete peace............PUT YOUR
HEART IN THE HAND OF THE I AM THAT IS I AM.........AND HE WILL PLACE IT IN THE HAND OF THE
RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU......ALAFIA.......



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CULTURE / Women reasoning towards men in term of just friend
« on: March 24, 2013, 09:12:51 PM »
WHY "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS" A PLAYLET - The Stage is Set *enters doc* Doc: Let us interview the subjects... *enters Mr. Nice Guy...walking in....crying and mumbling* *doc shines the light in his eyes and walks around him in a circle* Doc: Now, Mr. Nice Guy, why are you so sad? Nice Guy: Because...*sobs*...the gal I want only sees me as a friend! Doc: What! How did you know this? Nice Guy: I ask her out consistently and she says, "let's just be friends" PAUSE! Poor Nice Guy! His heart is shattered and scattered across the floor! He wants to feel sorry
for himself, he wants others to feel sorry for him and hates how life has become. But...let us quickly interrupt the nice guy's pickin' up the pieces of his heart... PLAY! Doc: Tell us, Nice Guy, what were you trying to do? Nice Guy: Well...*sobs*...I thought I could get close to this gal by being friends. Then,
perhaps, something would happen between us PAUSE! This is very common. A hot woman has tons of guys trying to 'be friends' with her. But is
friendship the key? PLAY! Doc: Bring in the next subject! *enters the hot woman herself. She sits down, doc shines the light in her eyes, and walks
around her with hands clasped behind his back* Doc: Now Miss. Why do you not go out with this guy? Woman: I just don't see him that way. We're just friends. Doc: But, is it friends? Oh woman, tell...what does he remind you of really? Woman: *thinking*...I think of him like a brother... Nice Guy: *shocked* like a brother!...*shudders in horror* PAUSE! She thinks of him like a brother because he acted like a brother. Going out of your way to do things for a lady (in a non-sexual/ relationship context) is
what her brother would do. A woman must see you in a sexual way in order for any hope of romance to blossom
(or...in order to see you as a 'worthy date'). The nice guys go after women in some bizarre
friendship way. But then....let us complete the task... PLAY! Doc: Bring in the Ideal Man! *enters the ideal man...sits down confidently* Doc: Ideal Man...how can you be friends with ladies and be successful whereas the Nice Guy
cannot? Ideal Man: Doc, its all about fun. I have friends that are ladies. I talk to them, hang out with
them, have fun with them. The bitter truth is that the nice guy is not the fun guy. A woman
won't date you unless she sees you that way...in other words - she needs to always feel
good around you...that translates to FUN... STOP! The best dates are action dates. Doing things together - rather than just talkin' or eatin' out
is more fun. The more fun she has...the more attractive you become... Even when you have female friends you're not romantically goin' after but spend fun times
with, the more fun they have, the more attracted they become to you and eventually, they
turn their romantic targets in your direction... As for the Nice guy, he is hardly fun whenever he's friends with a lady. He chokes her with
attention by always tryin' to connect with her - he constantly tries to look innocent -
walking on egg shells...he tries to get to know her yet she is bored to hell (hence, she uses
him as an emotional tampon - continuously dumpin' all her emotional issues on him while
she scouts for a fun guy...hmmm). THE TRUTH - Most Ladies would not consider dating guys that bore them *there's no rule with women*....but... If there were any rule...I would say...NEVER BORE THEM...make them laugh...make them have
fun...heck...make them embarrassed (in a fun-sexual way of course)...but.. .NEVER...EVER bore
them...else...you'll only succeed at getting her true friendship - nothing more... A FRIEND SHE SEES, A FRIEND YOU SHALL REMAIN... PERFECT IS BORING, BEING HUMAN IS BEAUTIFUL...

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CULTURE / women loneliness
« on: March 24, 2013, 09:06:59 PM »
 Some women are so afraid to be alone that they let men treat them like dirt. I wonder how
they feel when the random man they chose is out until 3 a.m. making sure some other
woman isn?t lonely. Some women cling to any man that gives her attention, desperately
trying to fill the place of the father she never knew. I wonder how she feels selling her soul
for less than the child support her father never paid. Some women proclaim from the roof
tops how independent they are. I wonder how they feel allowing man after man to lay in their bed all in the name of being able to treat men like men have treated women for years.
Some women are so bitter that their frown lines are deeper than their smile lines. I wonder
how they feel wishing they had a good man but no man will come within ten feet of them
for fear of being emasculated and judged so harshly based on the last exes she?s had. Some women, no matter how bad her past relationships have been, one day say, enough!
Some women, finally get tired of being tired and intend to plot a new path filled with
forgiveness, self esteem and integrity. No matter what your past held, there is always
renewal that you can reach for. No matter how many men you have had, there is one man
that will never leave you, hurt you or use you. You have spent years chasing earthly men,
why not seek God and chase Him with such a passionate dedication. I wrote this with a woman as the main character but trust me, men go through relationship
issues that leave them broken too. But God is a fixer. Even if you come to him in a million
pieces, God will rebuild you anew and make those pieces, complete peace............PUT YOUR
HEART IN THE HAND OF THE I AM THAT IS I AM.........AND HE WILL PLACE IT IN THE HAND OF THE
RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU......ALAFIA.......




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CELEBRITIES and ENTERTAINMENTS / Thing's about men u don't recall
« on: March 24, 2013, 09:01:46 PM »
 Not all Men Who come For you are after sex we also need Love And not Sex Not all men Like to be with pretty women but we need an independent decent women not
a must for her to be beautiful Showing off With half naked clothes either on social media or outside social media makes
no different For u being called whore Men Dont Like Ladies who play So hard to get For Long period Time. We Also Get Bored And
keep off Dont Brag when you get Many Likes on your photo. Not everyone who likes the photo likes
u some liked it since it appeared on their home page. Not All Men Are Happy When You keep Telling Them buy this For Me Buy that for
me..Sometimes spend on ur cash

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FAMILY and Home / Real Nigerian women
« on: March 24, 2013, 08:44:41 PM »
 A real Nigerian woman is a lady who is a backbone of her husband's growth...She is loving,
caring, understanding, tolerant, God fearing, Faithful...A real Nigerian woman is a role model
to the world at large...A real Nigerian woman is supportive, hard-working, independent, yet
submissive to her husband...A real Nigerian woman only needs the husband's truthfulness,
faithfulness, understanding, caring and loving heart from her husband...A real Nigerian
woman might be the bread winner of the family but in the face of the world will refer to all she has as her husband's hard-work...She doesn't care if u re crippled, rich, poor, tall, or
Rejected by all...A Real Nigerian Woman, may seem to love money more than everything in
the world, but not more than her husband...A real Nigerian woman cannot trade her love
for any amount or material...She is a world class example to both old n young...A Real
Nigerian woman, will never bring her domestic problem to the public just because she
respects and love her husband...She kneels down in tears and pain praying to God to make a positive change where there is a problem, while the world might be sleeping or going
after material things out there...She is an encouragement, a stepping stone, a beautification
without resemblance...A Real Nigerian Woman has nothing like "Divorce" in her dictionary
or encyclopedia... Finally, A real Nigerian woman will do anything to protect her loved ones,
including selling her last wear for her family to eat or be educated...She will never give
up...She is an epitome of Faith, Hope, and Love...And surprisenly, both Nature and God rewards her with fruitfulness n abundance in the future... God bless the Nigerian Women, especially my Sweet mother and whoever will be my wife,
in Jesus name. Amen!!!

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CELEBRITIES and ENTERTAINMENTS / What will u do ?
« on: March 19, 2013, 07:40:13 PM »
 Which can you share with your
lover?
1. ATM pin
2. Facebook password
3. Phone secret codes
4. E-mail password 5. Ur Life Secrets
6. BAnk Account
7. All of the Above
8. NON OF THE ABOVE

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HUMOUR and JOKES / nigeria special joke
« on: March 19, 2013, 07:35:57 PM »
NO OFFENCE INTENDED, ENJOY! Angel Gabriel came to the Lord and said: "I have to talk to you. I have some Nigerians up
here in Heaven who are causing some problems.
They are swinging on the Pearly Gates, my
horn is gone missing, Maggi sauce and Ogbono soup are all over their robes; hamhocks, Isi-
ewu,
Cow-feet and Bokoto bones are all over the streets of Gold; some folks are walking around with one wing, they have been late taking their turn in keeping the stairway to heaven
clean.
There are beer bottles all over the clouds, some aren't even wearing their halos, saying it
doesn't
fit with their hairstyles."
The Lord said: "I made them special, as I did you, my angel. Heaven is home to all my children. If you really
want to know about problems, let's call the
Devil." The Devil answered the phone: "Hello? What the . . . !, hold on one minute." The Devil returned to the phone and said: "Hello Lord, what can I do for you?" The Lord replied: "Tell me what kind of problems you are having
down there." The Devil said: "Wait one minute," And put the Lord on hold. After 5 minutes he
returned to the phone, and said: "Okay, I'm back. What was the question again?" The Lord said: "What kind of problems are you having down
there?" The Devil said: "Man, I don't belieeev . . . . hold on, Lord" . This time the Devil was gone for 15 minutes. The Devil returned and said: "I'm sorry Lord, I can't talk right now. These Nigerians put the
fire out, and now they are trying to install air conditioning! They even
bribed my guys!"

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HUMOUR and JOKES / smile it out
« on: March 19, 2013, 07:28:42 PM »
 A Jamaican man was makin love to his wife
for de 1st time...
Suddenly he shouted,
"Jah Bless" and run out of the room, came
back with a giant bucket of water, poured it
on his wife's Pu**y.... His frightened wife shouted,"Watta gwan,
what u rasta man do dat for?"
De man answered, "bombo clat woman,
dis ting too sweet,
me gwan dilute it, remember me diabetic and
sweet ting a no gud for me rastaman.

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GENERAL DISCUSSION / Re: I LOVE THIS FORUM
« on: March 11, 2013, 03:33:06 PM »
na whaoo ... Seems am missing out

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am sure not short

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LITERATURE and BOOKS. / Re: WHERE IS TONIB?...STORY OF A DREAM COME TRUE!
« on: January 17, 2013, 01:20:47 PM »
better than non

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GENERAL DISCUSSION / Re: Truth and must read
« on: January 10, 2013, 06:28:01 PM »
is because of they experience about it but need to be guild and thanks for understanding . Ask ur questions and i will answer u

Post Merge: January 26, 2013, 07:10:27 PM
why sex education is taboo for our parents to teach

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GENERAL DISCUSSION / Truth and must read
« on: January 09, 2013, 08:39:15 PM »
Sex according to Pastor Khathide (Ugandan) A lot of people don't associate sex with God - they associate it with Satan and darkness, as
if sex is not holy.... !! The bible is explicit when it comes to sex.
Sex is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style.
Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not
discussing sex in a relationship leads to divorce!!!!!. Pastor Khathide has counseled women
who've complained: my husband treats me as if I were his brother.
There was one who told him:
I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary.
Khathide told her she was lucky to be getting sex fortnightly,
since some wives only get it on big days, like elections. Many husbands leave their wives to
seek sexual pleasures in Hillbrow. Have you ever asked yourself what those women have that you don't. Wives have become
very frigid and even sleep with their panties.
If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked
and let your bum touch your husband..
Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a ----. They page through
magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide
it from them. Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner.
A woman should parade naked and do some modeling to tempt her husband. There are
many married women who don't know what their husbands' ---es look like. She only
feels it when he enters her. They've never touched it, let alone seen it, because the husband
switches off the lights before undressing. A --- is a wife' s toy - she is supposed to play with it. He blames couples for not making
time for sex and complaining about
being tired after a day's work.
You find many couples who've been sexually starved for years.
God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure.
You can't marry and not have a good time in bed. WHO SAID YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife?
We' re all equal in sex - it's not just about a woman satisfying a man.
You have to satisfy each other.
Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied?
Have u noticed how she glows and becomes energetic? May the Lord Bless you. This is the 'Whole Truth, Nothing But The Truth' so God !
Told Us From The Beginning...

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Was working but not anymore

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NEWS / Re: 10-YR-OLD SETS SELF ABLAZE
« on: November 16, 2011, 10:52:58 AM »
What can cause such act

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how far my people.. any better power supply?

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FAMILY and Home / Re: DO YOU LIVE NEAR A ROTTEN NEIGHBOR?
« on: June 24, 2011, 10:02:14 PM »
sound cool

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Life experience

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NEWS / Re: ?WE SOUGHT REFUGE IN EMIR?S PALACE?
« on: May 01, 2011, 10:59:40 AM »
Sad news.

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GENERAL DISCUSSION / Re: HAVE YOU EVER DOUBTED YOUR WIFE?S LOVE?
« on: May 01, 2011, 09:43:50 AM »
It takes trust to believe

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LITERATURE and BOOKS. / Re: FOR KENDAN...OF KINGS AND KINGDOMS
« on: May 01, 2011, 09:04:55 AM »
He was rejected because he can't pass shoe shining examination

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RELIGION / Re: A simple prayer
« on: May 01, 2011, 08:54:22 AM »
Amen

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