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HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« on: April 16, 2009, 03:13:33 AM »
The term job dissatisfaction has been a popular topic of many water cooler discussions. How many times have you heard someone complain about their job? A better question is, how many times have you? How do you deal with a job you hate but have to keep in order to pay the bills and feed your family?

Some studies show that job dissatisfaction is one of the main causes of stress and stress is one of the main causes of illness. This article is not about how to find out if you hate your job or not. If you hate your job, you know it. So letís see what sort of options you have to deal with this without outright cutting off your only source of income.

When you have a job you hate, itís very draining both mentally and physically. But if youíve had your job for some time now, you most likely have done what most people do. Youíve found ways to make yourself believe that the job isnít all that bad. You focus on the good things about the job in order to drown out the bad things.

Although this is a good temporary solution, overtime, it will have an adverse effect on you. You canít lie to yourself for too long. That fake smile you put on everyday will eventually turn into a frown and your attitude will suffer as well. So what is a better solution?

Figure out exactly what makes you hate your job.

Is it the actual work itself or the environment or working conditions? If you have a job you can care less about, then the obvious solution is to find a way to get into a job that means something to you. If you have a job that is in a field you like but you hate because of the working conditions (pay, co-workers, lousy boss, etc.) then you need to find a way to upgrade your conditions by going to another company or getting a promotion.

Although these solutions may seem obvious, the challenge is that because many people use rationalizations to feel better about their jobs even though deep down they hate it, they will feel comfortable where theyíre at. Whenever weíre comfortable, we will stagnate and not do anything to change our situation.

So the way to deal with a job you hate is to really hate it. Donít deny your emotions, theyíre telling you something. Use that energy to create a plan and take action to move yourself towards a job, career, or company you will actually enjoy working for. When you know that thereís a bright future at the end of the tunnel instead of a brick wall, although youíll still hate your job, youíll have something to look forward to each day. That will make a huge difference in your level of happiness.

You will spend the majority of your adult life working. You have one life to live and itís short. If you agree with these two statements then it should make no sense to you to be sticking with a job you hate for the rest of your life.

So the way you deal with a job you hate but canít just outright quit yet, is to create a plan of escape to eventually be able to leave the job and do something you enjoy even if it takes years to accomplish because if you donít, youíll end up hating your life. And when you hate your life, whatís the point?
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #1 on: April 16, 2009, 11:43:44 AM »


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« Reply #2 on: January 24, 2010, 06:17:41 AM »
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2010, 09:48:20 PM »
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #4 on: February 10, 2010, 05:17:25 PM »
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #5 on: March 02, 2010, 07:14:13 AM »
You know, what you said is completely true.   I too was once in a dead end job earning chicken feed as a salary and was a very dissatisfied.   I went into online businesses as a means of finding financial independence.  It wasn't easy at first but I now earn a very decent income.   I've quit my job and aspire to exapand into other businesses so I can appreciate what you are saying.

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #6 on: March 26, 2010, 11:26:41 AM »
thanks for the great tips

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #7 on: September 04, 2010, 08:10:04 AM »
hi,

I think, above tips are very good and  be grateful.  Knowing you have a job when the unemployment rate has skyrocketed is a start to feeling more grateful.  thanks for sharing. 





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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #8 on: November 25, 2010, 07:52:52 AM »
If you are employed in this troubled economy, it might seem a bit selfish to hate it and not appreciate it because you have a job.  There are many, many people who are in the same predicament who are hating their jobs but reluctantly keeping them because of the high unemployment rates in our bad economy.  Here are ways to deal with your job during a bad economy when all you want to do is quit.

Read more: How to Deal With a Job You Hate Until the Economy Recovers | eHow. com hxxp: www. ehow. com/how_4876479_job-hate-until-economy-recovers. html#ixzz16KNV01vlAppreciate the people you do like at your workplace.  There will always be difficult co-workers and bosses you can't avoid, so instead, work on skills on your off time so that you'll be prepared when the economy does get better, you'll be ready for interviews at a job you will like.  This way you can tell yourself any time you have a bad run in with the difficult people at work that it won't be forever.  Keep the big picture in mind.


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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #9 on: December 06, 2010, 03:46:32 AM »
If you do not have options for now I think you should learn to like your job.

While there start actively searching for another one.  Ask yourself how your current job is going to make your career drive better.  I think most people are so afraid of losing what they presently have that they sell themselves short.  If you do not like your job, dont die in silence.
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #10 on: March 08, 2011, 11:12:15 AM »
The important question to ask yourself is:
Why don't I like this job?
is it the people I am working with?
the environment?
the nature of the job?
my personality?

find the answers and tack;e it from there because unless you have a cogent reason to leave a job, pls don't.

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #13 on: July 19, 2011, 06:58:44 AM »
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #14 on: March 27, 2012, 07:06:57 PM »
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #15 on: April 11, 2012, 12:40:00 PM »
I have similar question/discussion point.  What to do when even you like your job, but you are getting bored after 4 hours, every day. . . ?
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« Reply #16 on: July 09, 2012, 12:11:42 PM »
Every job needs devotion, no matter if you like it or not.  I think if one hates its job he/she must immediately leave that job, because it i no fun to keep doing the work you hate, so many problems will generate and no one can give its best to work in that situation.
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #17 on: November 02, 2012, 08:19:29 AM »
i just need to find another job that i don't hate much
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« Reply #18 on: November 06, 2012, 07:58:53 AM »
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« Reply #19 on: November 27, 2012, 11:20:32 AM »
Job satisfaction is very important for all the employees.  It is very difficult to work if we are not satisfied.  If we feel dissatisfied, one option is find another job or else should find satisfaction in the existing job!!

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« Reply #20 on: November 27, 2012, 11:31:03 AM »
I experienced this once and what I did is I just had to endure the job until such time that I started to like it. . .


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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A JOB YOU HATE
« Reply #21 on: December 19, 2012, 08:41:02 AM »
The most simple and ethical solution of that is to discuss your issue regarding to your job with HR (human Resource Manager) of that company

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