‘Please tell me what to do’ Heart 2 Heart with Njigirl Sunday, August 29, 2010 Hi Njigirl, Great compliments to you. I’ve been following your column for some time now, and I must say, it’s wonderful. I am a young man of 21 and an undergraduate in one of the universities in the South East. [...]

What do you know about sex? By Vivian Onyebukwa and Nkechi Chima-Onyele Saturday, August 28, 2010 The answer to this question depends largely on who you ask. A doctor might tell you that sex is defined by hormones in your body; a therapist might say that sex is all in your head; a guru may [...]

‘Her breasts have become flat’ Heart 2 Heart with Njigirl (Your problem solver) Sunday, August 22, 2010 Dear Nji, I am 30 years old and in love with a 24 year old girl. I will say I love this girl and wish to marry her. She is in her final year in a Nigerian university [...]

How did you handle heartbreak? By Vivian Onyebukwa, Agatha Emeadi, and Nkechi Chima-Onyele Saturday, August 21, 2010 Christian Chinonso God is my comforter whenever I am heartbroken. That is the only remedy. Mike Uche I managed it badly. It happened in 2000. I met this girl, Mercy Monyei in the bus from Ibadan to Lagos. [...]

10 things we won’t forgive in a relationship? By Bolatito Adebayo Sunday, August 15, 2010 What happens when love goes sour? Resentment, bitterness and unforgiveness set in. Everyone is prone to make mistakes and as a result misunderstanding arises, tempers flare up, quarrels and then the partners begin to avoid each other. The I’m-not-speaking-to-you mood [...]